Decide

We're all gonna die. 

We don't get much say on how or when, 

but we do get to decide how we are gonna live. 

So do it, decide. 

Is this the life you want to live? 

Is this the person you want to love? 

Is this the best you can be? 

Can you be stronger? 

kinder? 

more compassionate? 

Decide. 

Breathe in...Breathe out...and decide.

Letting go & Moving on ...

It's one of those things that people say, you can't move on until you let go of the past. Letting go is the easy part, it's the moving on that's painful. So sometimes we fight it, try and keep things the same. Things can't stay the same though. At some point, you just have to let go. Move on. Because no matter how painful it is, it's the only way we grow.

Sometimes, but, not always !

It's a little bit horrifying just how quickly everything can fall to crap. 

Sometimes, it takes a huge loss to remind you of what you care about the most. 

Sometimes, you find yourself becoming stronger as a result; 

wiser, better equip to deal with the next big disaster that comes along. 

Sometimes, but, not always.

It's easier to be alone ...

 There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone.

It wasn't 'cause I thought I'd be happy alone. 

It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, 
I might not make it. 

It's easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love and you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? 

What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? 

Can you even survive that kind of pain? 

Losing love is like organ damage. 

It's like dying. 

The only difference is death ends. 

This? It could go on forever.